I can’t believe I’m doing this, but I’ve made the decision to delete my backlog of posts and start anew with this journal.
I’ve hit, if not a roadblock, then a series of speed bumps in my efforts to lose my spare poundage. Lately it’s been such a struggle. I haven’t exercised in just a few days shy of a whole month. I’ve been eating too much and grazing nonstop. I’ve grown careless in tracking and have been letting things slide altogether too much. This simply isn’t working for me.
I’ve been doing Weight Watchers off and on for a very long time, but lately I’ve been toying with the idea of switching to purely counting calories. WW is wonderful but it’s too flexible for me, as absurd as that may sound. I’ve grown too adept at manipulating the system, and lately I’ve begun to worry about all the zero point foods and the things that get rounded down or not counted at all because it’s just a bite here and a taste there that are probably adding up to major calories. I’m going to start using a calorie tracker tomorrow and see if I see better results with that. I have three weeks left of my WW paper journal so I’ll keep tracking points alongside the calories and give it those three weeks to see if I’m ready to let go of the Weight Watchers system. I’m kind of scared by that; I’ve been doing it for so long that it’s so easy and comfortable and natural. But maybe that’s the problem; it’s too effortless by this point, and I’m not required to put any thought into it anymore.
I’m also going to go back to basics. Everything I eat is going to be weighed or measured out first, so I’m certain of my serving sizes and confident that I know exactly how many calories are going into my body. No more being sloppy and careless about what I put into my body and no more mindless grazing out of the cupboard as I go by. Maybe it’s crazy but I’m actually kind of excited about this, intrigued by the idea of breaking this down into pure science, of calories in vs. calories out. I’m hoping too that if I’m truly mindful of the math I’ll be less likely to graze, because I’ll be able to see the real impact of those extra calories I’m sneaking in rather than seeing it in the nebulous terms of being some random fraction of a WW point.
Along with this change I’m implementing a major change in the way I eat; I’m cutting way back on sugar, white flour and processed foods and am aiming to cut out HFCS and artificial sweetners as much as I can, putting an emphasis on whole grains, fresh fruits and veggies, and lean protein and dairy. This is not something I’m doing on a whim; this is a change that I’ve been slowly pondering, culling information and resources and slowly working towards equipping my kitchen for for many months now, and I simply feel like it’s time. I don’t expect to be perfect at this, but my old way of eating just had too many nutritional black holes in it and I just feel like I can’t do that anymore. If I’m limiting the food I’m taking in AND expecting extraordinary things of my body on the exercise front, then it’s important that every calorie I take in count for something.
Lastly, I’m approaching this blog differently in two ways. One, when I was journaling here before I was so worried about creating meaningful and polished posts and not boring people with the day to day details. But you know what – it’s MY blog and it’s only a useful tool as far as it works for me; and what I really need right now is a place to talk about the day to day details so that I stay mindful and present in this process every day. So maybe I’ll drive people away who don’t want to hear about what I had for lunch today or whatever but that’s okay; I’m doing this for my benefit first and foremost and I just have to use it in the way that will help me best without worrying about what anyone else thinks, even if it results in a blog that’s boring and unmeaningful to anyone else.
And two – and this is going to be hardest of all for me – I need to back off on all the tracking and charting and everything that I was doing before. I had my progress charted and graphed and my daily exercise logs laid out in a table and weekly and montly posts outlining goals and detailling results and … it just needs to stop. I NEED to break away from that mindset, as hard as it’s going to be for me to make that change. No more; I need to bring this process back around to something that’s going to be comfortable and sane for the long haul. If this is truly the lifestyle change that I want it to be, then I need to be less uptight about filling every slot in some chart or meeting some self-imposed deadline than about simply making things balance. I want to take the emphasis off of racing towards some imaginary finish line and make it more about eating well more days than I eat poorly and exercising more days than not; and while I will still weigh myself on a regular basis to stay mindful I want to get away from the ‘weekly weigh in’ mindset of beating myself up for not losing enough in any arbitrary seven day period, but rather focus on and be thankful for a gradual downward trend, even if it doesn’t get me where I want to be as fast as I think I should.
I know this is a lot to tackle all at once but I honestly am ready for a change.
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